I've been blogging regularly for 4 years now. My blog is actually my main source of memory-keeping, along with sharing of my scrapbooking and crafting adventures. I have loved sharing on my blog and loved the community and friends I've made because of my blog. If you look at the "
About Me" page above, you can read what I'm all about. I love writing, scrapbooking, paper-crafting, running, eating, and my friends and family. My blog has been all about these things and more. Over the last 4 years, I've made blogging my priority and have put in a lot of time and effort into regularly writing posts for my blog.
This past week, I almost quit blogging. At least, I thought seriously about taking a hiatus. Over the last couple of months, I've noticed that blogging had become sort of a chore. I wasn't getting as many comments as I used to get on this blog. While that is certainly not the over-riding reason why I blog, it was fun to have feedback about the different types of things I blogged about. Lately, I had been getting the feeling that I've been talking to myself. And really, talking to yourself is no fun! I've talked to other bloggers about the diminishing comments, and they have experienced the same. We have discussed some possible reasons why blog commenting seems to go the way of the dodo bird. Some reasons mentioned were Pinterest, reading blogs on mobile devices, shorter attention-spans, etc. I think all of these are contributing factors to the diminishing blog comments, but there's really no solution to them in general.
As a regular blogger, I'm putting content and sharing my life out to the blogging universe. Most bloggers who blog are sharing their projects out of the love of sharing and the community. Most bloggers don't actually make any money off of their blogs. So the love of our craft, love of blogging, and the community that blogging creates, is all we have. We do it because we love it. We spend time taking photos of projects, processing them, and writing our posts. This is time that could be spent doing something else. For me personally, it was time that I had to find during the evenings and weekends, since I work full-time as a financial analyst. What made my blogging worthwhile to me is how much I love going back to read my own posts and all the memories I've made and kept on this blog. It's also very gratifying that my husband Todd loves reading my blog. Another thing that makes it worthwhile is having readers who provided feedback and comments on my posts. I don't make money off my blog, so the intrinsic value for me is intangible. It is simply that I need to feel like blogging is gratifying to me in some way or another.
And lately, it hasn't felt gratifying. I feel like I spend time and effort on my blog and I just hear crickets. I felt very discouraged. Is anybody reading? Why would anyone care about my blog? I had a discussion on my Facebook wall this week amongst my scrappy friends, and here are some things that were brought up.
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Dear Christine,
I am so one of those people that
read (and still reads) your blog regularly and doesn't comment. I
believe I may have commented once. I want to comment, I think of awesome
things I would say but I usually am grabbing some reading in little
snippets and run out of time for the good intentions I do have.
But I love what you share and I looked forward each
week to see what cool thing you did on your Project Life pages.
Honestly, when I saw you had posted a PL post, I worked some time on my
computer with a cup of coffee or tea to see what fun little touches you
did. So sorry for never letting you know how much I really love your
work. But I break out of my not commenting trend to reach out to you and
see if you are still doing PL because I miss seeing them, since your
last post I have been checking weekly hoping they would show back up. Or
that you were busy and would post a bunch at once.
No matter what I hope you are still doing them
because they are amazing and what a gift to be able to look back on in
the years to come."
I can't tell you how much the timing and content of this email encouraged me to keep on sharing on my blog. If there is one person out there who silently reads my blog and is inspired by my projects and posts, surely there are others who are the same? I'm not spending time and effort putting it out there in vain. Even if not many people are commenting, I imagine there are many who do read my posts. And pin them to Pinterest. Perhaps even one person might read a post and it inspired them to pull out photos or crafting supplies and make something. That is worthwhile to me. Do I wish more people would say hello and comment? Of course. Every blogger wants to feel like they're making a difference, and want to be part of a community where there is feedback and discussion. But I can't make people do it. I just trust that you're out there silently reading, enjoy that cup of coffee, and thinking about your next project, or what to eat, or dreaming of a vacation to San Diego. :)
PS - the subject of Project Life warrants a whole post by itself, coming soon, I hope. :D
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